In general, you can use a particular Taxonomy (or Category/Tags, each Taxonomy and each Custom Field) only once in the form. You would need to make additional custom taxonomies. This post tries to explain this a bit better (you can use a plugin to switch category terms from category to any new taxonomy that you make, so it is not so hard to do). It is a really awful preachy lecture I wrote:
https://support.searchandfilter.com/forums/topic/multiple-categories-combination/#post-55166
Sorry about the tone, but the message is right and it links to good plugins (except taxonomy switcher I think).
Then to get one filter change to when another is set with an option, on the General settings tab:
Set Auto Count
(both settings) to ON
And then in the Form UI:
In each field set Hide Empty
to ON